The Friendliest Nation

I was listening to the radio at Alejandro's house, and there was a report talking about a survey ranking the friendliest nations in the world.  Mexico was listed as the friendliest out of the 59 countries in the survey.

I later went onto the internet and found the survey which was actually conducted in 2023 by a group called InterNations, an international organization for ex-pats.  More than 12,000 ex-pats representing 171 nationalities responded.  The top five friendly countries were Mexico, Brazil, the Philippines, Indonesia and Vietnam.

I certainly would not dispute Mexico's ranking.  I really cannot recall any incidents of rudeness toward me by the Mexican people.  The fact that I speak Spanish certainly helps, but I think that anyone who makes the effort to speak just a few phrases of the language will endear themselves to the people.  It is true that many in Mexico City are upset with the "invasion" of digital nomads coming here.  The increased demand for housing has resulted in higher rents in the more desirable neighborhoods.  Quite a few Mexicans have been priced out of their apartments.  (Fortunately, I am not a part of that problem.  The owners of the condo which I rented for many years, sold it to me at a reasonable price.  I did not displace anyone from their home.)  I have seen a couple "Gringo, go home" signs in the neighborhoods of Condesa and Roma where the greatest number of digital nomads have settled, but I have not personally experienced any hostility.  Most Mexicans are not happy about the current state of U.S. politics, but they have always distinguished between the U.S. government and the individual citizens.

The United States was way down on the list at #24.    

I have to say, however, that wherever you travel. if you show respect and kindness it will probably be returned.  France is at #39, and there has long been the stereotype that the Parisians are arrogant and rude.  However, when I was there I found the people generally quite nice and helpful.  I always said "Bonjour" and used the tiny bit of French that I know.  That seemed to do the trick.

The UK is #32, Switzerland is #46 and Norway is #47.  Those low rankings puzzle me.  Granted, I have cousins in those countries which smooths the way.  However, I found the Brits to be very charming.  And I still remember an experience I had in Norway.  I was waiting for the tram in Oslo, and a group of university students started conversing with me.  They were headed for a night at the bars, and they asked me if I wanted to join them.  I thanked them, but said it was time for this old man to go to bed.